Your body changed.Your closet has some catching up to do.
Learn to dress the body you have now. Build a closet you can’t wait to wear.
The clothes you used to walk right past?
Now you’re wondering what they’d look like on you.
Maybe you spent years choosing what fit, what hid, or what felt safe. Suddenly, there’s a whole lot more to choose from. That can be disorienting. It can also be really exciting!
Because now you get to ask a different question:
“What do I actually want to wear?”
The clothes you used to walk right past?
Now you’re wondering what they’d look like on you.
Maybe you spent years choosing what fit, what hid, or what felt safe.
Suddenly, there’s a whole lot more to choose from. That can be disorienting. It can also be really exciting!
Because now you get to ask a different question:
“What do I actually want to wear?”
Hi, I’m Ros.
I’ve lost 40+ pounds in three different decades of my life, so I understand very personally that “just buy clothes in your new size” is spectacularly unhelpful advice.
A smaller size doesn’t tell you why the jeans you thought would finally work still don’t, which brands are worth trying now, or what to do with all the choices you suddenly have.
I built Reframed to help you learn how to dress the body you have now, figure out what you love wearing, and find joy in opening your closet every morning.
I’ll teach you how to understand fit, help you experiment without wasting a fortune, and turn what we learn into a wardrobe you love, know how to wear, and feel confident in.
What I've learned working with women after significant weight loss
A smaller size is only part of the story.
- 01Your body can change faster than the way you see it.
- 02Your proportions may have shifted, and different parts of your body may not have changed at the same rate.
- 03A piece can be “your size” and technically fit, but still feel completely wrong.
- 04A brand you wore for years may suddenly fit completely differently.
- 05Some of the silhouettes you learned to wear were about hiding or working with the options you had. That’s different from knowing what you love to wear.
- 06The clothes you always thought you’d wear “if only” may finally fit. You may love them. You may not.
- 07Your closet can be a source of noise. Clearing out what doesn't work anymore makes room for what does.
- 08It can take time to stop shopping by the rules you learned for your old body.
- 09Having options can be surprisingly overwhelming when you’ve spent years shopping within constraints.
- 10Losing weight doesn’t make fit issues disappear. It just changes what good fit looks like.
We start with you.
Your body has changed, what fits has changed, and what you want to wear may have changed too.
So before I start putting clothes in front of you, we’ll work together to understand four things:
Body
Your proportions, how clothes fit you now, and what’s happening when something doesn’t work.
Style
What you’re drawn to, what you’ve always loved, and what you might want to try now.
Real Life
Where you go, what you do, and what your clothes need to do for you.
Clothes
The cuts, fabrics, proportions, brands, and details that bring all of it together.
We'll build from where your body is now.
If you’re still losing, it doesn’t make sense to build a forever wardrobe yet.
If you’re at maintenance, we can build for the long term.
The Transition Wardrobe
Dress the body you have now without overspending on a temporary size.
We’ll figure out what still works, what you need now, and where it makes sense to buy, rent, tailor, or wait.
You’ll learn how to dress your changing body, make smarter decisions about what’s worth buying, and leave with enough clothes and outfits to feel good getting dressed now.
What we’ll do
- Understand your body and style
- Figure out what still works
- Identify what you need now
- Shop selectively
- Build outfits you know how to wear
The Full Reframe
Build the wardrobe you’ve been waiting for.
We’ll go deep to understand your body, your style, and what your wardrobe needs to do for the life you live now.
Then we’ll test new possibilities, shop to build a wardrobe around what we learn, and turn it into outfits you know how to wear.
What we’ll do
- Understand your body and style
- Edit your closet
- Discover what works for you
- Build your wardrobe
- Create outfits and a complete lookbook
What it feels like to get Reframed.
Sally R
I’d lost weight and reached maintenance right as I was launching a new business where I'd be much more visible professionally. Suddenly my closet felt like it belonged to someone I used to be.
I was excited to get to the clothes. I was less convinced I needed all the measurements, photos, and questions first. But once we started shopping, I got it. Ros knew my body, understood how I wanted to show up, and was bringing me things I never would have picked for myself, but somehow felt completely right.
I would try things on and think, “There I am!” And everything fit. Not ‘good enough’ fit, actually fit fit. I felt more confident walking into a room, being photographed, and representing my business. I wasn't thinking about my clothes or second-guessing how I looked. I just felt like myself.
The other surprise was how much I got for what I spent. Ros shopped consignment and built me a wardrobe worth around $5,000 for about $1,000. I got better clothes, they fit like they were made for me, and they're things I never would have found on my own. I got so much more out of the whole experience than I expected.
Linda A
I was tired of everything being about later. What I'd buy when I lost more weight. For the future me. I remember thinking, I don't want to keep buying clothes for a skinnier version of me. I want to feel like myself right now.
Working with Ros taught me so much about the relationship between my body and clothes. I thought it would be fun shopping and getting new clothes (and it was!) but the Body Blueprint showed me why I'd struggled with certain fits for years. I finally understood why belts had never worked on me. What rise I need in jeans. Why I always felt swallowed up in shirts around my shoulders. There were all these little lightbulb moments of, oh THAT'S why.
We used those learnings to find enough clothes I loved on me now, without spending on a full closet I might size out of.
I'm still losing weight, and I don't know exactly where I'll end up. But I understand my body in a new way, and I'm not stuck in leggings every day waiting to reach some future size. I realized it's so much more motivating to be on this weight-loss journey while still dressing for work, dinners out, and life, and actually feel good about how I look right now, not just someday.
Oksana L
I was down 60 pounds and still losing weight, my clothes weren't working anymore, and I needed to look polished for a demanding job. I also have a young child, very little free time, and I hate shopping. I hate trying things on. Spending hours figuring out a new wardrobe for a body that was still changing was the last thing I wanted to do.
Ros went deep to understand my body, my work, my life, and what I would wear. When she asked about defining my style, I basically told her: I don't know. Just give me outfits. She got it.
Eight weeks later, Ros knows me. She gets where I need to be, what I'll feel comfortable in, what I'll wear and what I absolutely won't. And somewhere along the way, I started getting it too. I understand why she chooses certain things for me, why something works when I put it on, and why something else doesn't. Clothes don't feel so random anymore.
I'm almost at maintenance, and I'm excited to come back and have Ros build the full closet. I still hate shopping! But now I'm actually interested in what we're going to build. I never thought I'd say that.
Let’s talk about where you are now.
The Fit Call is a complimentary 30-minute conversation with me.
Tell me what’s changed, what your wardrobe looks like now, and what you want help with. I’ll tell you how I’d approach it and which service, if either, makes sense for where you are.